A Little Bit Of Drama!

i've been with the same girl for almost 5 years and we have a baby on the way in about a month or so.

What you're saying is to not give it my 100%, to keep reserved a little bit to help with the recoil of the near impossible.

I hope you save money for 'rainy days' and you don't go spend your entire paycheck the second you get it...

I'm not saying to not give it your all. That should be a given. If you love and care for someone and are in a long term / romantic relationship with them, you give it your 100% at all times. However, that above statement of yours is just incredibly foolish. As unlikely as you like to think (and as it may be) the possibility of things going other than what you hope for to happen, the fact remains that it can, and has a very real chance of happening. To not even acknowledge the reality of that is very risky, naive and setting yourself up for a world of pain and disappointment. I'm not asking you to have a lack of faith or suddenly doubt everything between you two. Just understand that it's reality and it -could- happen. Hope for the best, be prepared for the worst.

By even acknowledging it, that means that the relationship isn’t as strong as it could be. You’re telling me to entertain the fact that it may not work. By doing so would be asking part of me, no matter how small, to believe that one day it may break up. By asking me to do that, you’re asking me to doubt my relationship. Not a big doubt obviously, but a doubt nonetheless.

Again, I’m in this relationship 100%. I’m not going to even let a shred of doubt or suspicion into our relationship. You can’t call it true love unless it’s just that, true love.

Maybe you and others think that it’s foolish, but I believe it’s the only way to truly have happiness.

Maybe you and others think that it’s foolish, but I believe it’s the only way to truly have happiness.

Hun.. I hate to tell you but.. I've got to admit it... I cheated on you! With.. with... My penguin <3

Sex is like air. It's not important until you're not getting any.

So.. Do women get like.. mean when they're pregnant? I thought you could have sex up until like the 8th month. >.>

I hate to pity you but.... that has to suck. ._.

Internet relationships do work. I’m proof of it.

I met my girlfriend when I was 14, in a Yahoo Go Fish chat room. (Sardine Can, hehe) She was 13 at the time. Now we had everything stacked against us, we lived in different states, we both were poor (Meaning no traveling to meet often), puberty and high school influences (School, other guys/girls), and of course, parents who hated the other little brat that their child was dating. (My mom hated her, her dad hated me)

We had to go through a lot. And what’s more, we had to go through all of it over the internet. There was no real life interaction, and at any point in time we could have easily broken it off and just moved on. But despite all the hardships we went through, we prevailed.

I’m 21 now, she’s 20. We’ve been together coming up on 8 years on Feb. 2nd. I’ve moved to WA to be with her, and she has moved in with me. I found my soul mate over the internet. And boy is she a keeper. We both play FFXI, regularly, she likes to watch Bleach and Naruto, Stargate Atlantis and Legend of the Seeker.. we couldn’t possibly be anymore capatible.

So yea, internet relationships do work. Though ours was probably at the worst possible time in our life because of all the obstacles we had to go through, it woulda been much easier if we met as adults. But then we wouldn’t have this awesome story to tell everyone. 

Love you Abri!