Is FFXI Really That Hard Starting Out?

Threads like this are interesting.

I rather like the story and old content. I've been toying with leveling up a mule just to go thru the stories and try a different path to leveling up than I did before.

I find it sad that players want to skip the story so badly. Its one of my favorite aspects.

I understand if you've been thru the story and you are leveling another character to multibox and enhance your endgame play. However I feel you are missing a wonderful part of the game if you are trying to skip thru it.

I like the involved missions and quests.

I don't particularly care for the pointless time gaps and forced grind. (i.e. coalition assignments wait times)

I think some of the best designed content in FFXI is the content that is relevant to Advanced players and less experienced players both.
For example, one thing they did right in Abyssea is how the NM's which dropped upgrade items for Empyrean weapons, also finished quests/missions, provided valuable Key Items, upgrade items for armor, and equipment useful in its own right. It encouraged and rewarded cooperation and support from advanced players to less advanced players.

I'll have to look at that returning player guide again. its been awhile. I'm not sure where the best upgrade path is for gear beyond sparks. I feel there is a cap between sparks gear and Escha Zi'tah or reisenjima gear. Alluvion skirmish gear can fill that, but I don't feel that solo'ing yorcia alluvion skirmish with sub-skirmish gear is very profitable or practical.
Perhaps when Bayld Gear got upgraded it fills that gap. I'm not sure because I never used that gear.

when I came back in 2016, the first thin I wanted to do was finish my Mythic. I was thrilled that I could solo access the content to finish the grind. Any REM weapon is completely soloable. It just takes some time and dedication. those weapons are a big door opener for a returning player. Mythics are game changers for alot of jobs. other REM's can be also.

You can certainly chase your goals. At this point we have good resources (bg wiki, ffxiwiki, and ffxidb) to help us help ourselves. RME and most missions can be done solo. There are some great LS out there on Asura if you're interested in playing with others. All in all if you want to get to work now is a good time to start.

The problem is a lot of people are selfish and lazy.
They refuse to read wiki's because they insist that "people need to help each other," but they fail to realize that the guides are written by other players specifically to help each other.
I've gone to Reisenjima with alliances where 12 people get 1-shotted on the first AOE. Then the 6 survivors kill the enemy and pass the drops, only to then watch as the 12 weakened players fight over the drops.
I've seen a BLM ask to leech cp. That's horrible. BLM is the job that's easiest to get cp parties with and cp parties with BLM are among the faster ones.
I've had people spam me with tells because I was going to Omen or Dyna with my group and they wanted me to TELL my group we were bringing them.
So many people (like the drg in the op) don't want to be part of a coordinated effort to get their stars, or their gear, or their clears. They just believe those rewards should be offered to them for free like a blue participation ribbon at a grade 1 soccer game.

You're a rare specimen.

I'm not surprised. Because I'll offer to help someone too if they look serious. But I'm tired of helping out people who complain all the time and just quit after a bit.

Yup I always have a newb project or two going, gotta raise up the next generation or you won't have anyone to play with when half your current buddies leave. Pay it forward, and all that.

But I absolutely vet my projects. I make sure they're willing to take the lead in their own progression, and have me help them fill in gaps and get them through some of the harder content while they're catching up. Those are the kind of people worth helping. People like the DRG Emmajean ran into aren't worth the time of day. They'll either learn through neglect that they need to change their attitude for the better, or they'll give up on the game. Either way the rest of us win.

it's different if they join your ls. people will be nicer. but the same person who is nice and positive in your shell might be a real jerk in a pug with strangers. similar to how road rage works.

This thread is about Vize right?