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Advice on girls, yes another one
Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha
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By Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha 2011-12-09 03:36:59
Uri is such a bad, bad man. BAD!!!! (I feel like I've said this before...)
Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-12-09 03:37:47
I feel like a baby.
That makes Nightfyre a super-baby!
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By Odin.Hitoseijuro 2011-12-09 03:38:15
/smack Uri I'm Spence's age. Yomi is Eik's age. Yomi and I are a year apart. If you find out Spence or Eik's age you'll find out our ages. I know Eik's age as I have him on FB(guess that place is useful for something). And its what I figured to be your age(not you being Eik's age but the age you are).
Like that would be a punishment >.>;
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 03:38:18
Oh Eik is still alive yay!
I though I depressed him to death with my Lost Odyssey youtube vids!
Anywho, night people.
I will return to the dojo tomorrow.
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Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 03:39:47
I feel like a baby.
That makes Nightfyre a super-baby! Nini is a shotcon!
Srsly bed now, night.
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Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-12-09 03:40:14
I feel like a baby.
That makes Nightfyre a super-baby! Nini is a shotcon!
Srsly bed now, night.
nn~ >:3
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 03:44:18
Wait, I can't go to bed yet.
Volk may divulge his secret!
That was somewhat anti-climatic.
/runs away to sleep
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By Odin.Eikechi 2011-12-09 03:51:33
Oh Eik is still alive yay!
I though I depressed him to death with my Lost Odyssey youtube vids!
Anywho, night people.
I will return to the dojo tomorrow.
oh dude, i totally had that "awwww" moment, when I saw the first one...damn you! now i really want to play that game.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 03:52:34
Oh Eik is still alive yay!
I though I depressed him to death with my Lost Odyssey youtube vids!
Anywho, night people.
I will return to the dojo tomorrow.
oh dude, i totally had that "awwww" moment, when I saw the first one...damn you! now i really want to play that game. 360 is worth it.
Did you watch the second one?
It honestly isn't a huge spoiler.
Barely even a spoiler.
Damnit people.
Stop keeping me up!
Phoenix.Sehachan
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-12-09 03:53:43
So I'm in the car with Nini? I'm afraid that car may not arrive to your meeting guys. *hijacks*
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By Odin.Hitoseijuro 2011-12-09 03:54:33
Regrettable words with age!
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By Odin.Eikechi 2011-12-09 03:55:55
I didn't know there was a second one, now i'll have to back read ni to find it... damn you again!
PS. Why does nobody else have me on fb? :P
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 03:56:31
So I'm in the car with Nini? I'm afraid that car may not arrive to your meeting guys. *hijacks* Oh great, another short woman attempting to drive our car Hit.
We're dead.
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Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 03:58:04
I didn't know there was a second one, now i'll have to back read ni to find it... damn you again!
PS. Why does nobody else have me on fb? :P
Here you go. It has good music.
It's quite sad especially around 3:06 when the music changes.
Be sure to read the whole story too.
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By Odin.Hitoseijuro 2011-12-09 04:01:06
So I'm in the car with Nini? I'm afraid that car may not arrive to your meeting guys. *hijacks* Oh great, another short woman attempting to drive our car Hit. We're dead. Whatever helps them reach the pedals and over the steeringwheel

Working together to achieve our safety by forming a woman pyramid
Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-12-09 04:01:25
I didn't know there was a second one, now i'll have to back read ni to find it... damn you again!
PS. Why does nobody else have me on fb? :P
Psh, Facebook is onry for stalking my best friends ex for her. :c
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 04:01:33
So I'm in the car with Nini? I'm afraid that car may not arrive to your meeting guys. *hijacks* Oh great, another short woman attempting to drive our car Hit. We're dead. Whatever helps them reach the pedals and over the steeringwheel

Working together to achieve our safety by forming a woman pyramid Brilliant!
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By Odin.Eikechi 2011-12-09 04:01:47
That hanna one was the first one i thought..i read that one..and it was super sad
Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-12-09 04:01:48
Whatever helps them reach the pedals and over the steeringwheel

Working together to achieve our safety by forming a woman pyramid
I like that idea...
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Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 04:02:02
I didn't know there was a second one, now i'll have to back read ni to find it... damn you again!
PS. Why does nobody else have me on fb? :P
Psh, Facebook is onry for stalking my best friend's ex for her. :c Spoken like a true woman.
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By Odin.Eikechi 2011-12-09 04:03:31
I didn't know there was a second one, now i'll have to back read ni to find it... damn you again!
PS. Why does nobody else have me on fb? :P
Psh, Facebook is onry for stalking my best friend's ex for her. :c
Fair enough :P
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 04:03:36
That hanna one was the first one i thought..i read that one..and it was super sad Nah the first was just a song I played.
Theres 30 stories like that. the second is pretty sad too.
But it does contain a small spoiler(something you find out 5 minutes into the game).
If you wanna watch look up lost odyssey a hero's return.
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By Odin.Hitoseijuro 2011-12-09 04:05:05
Psh, Facebook is onry for stalking my best friend's ex for her. :c Nini can stalk me, true story~
You're on the bottom, like hell Im letting Seha work the pedals
'Cause if she does Im coming prepared...
Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-12-09 04:06:10
Nini can stalk me, true story~
osnap :O
Quote: You're on the bottom, like hell Im letting Seha work the pedals
'Cause if she does Im coming prepared...
looooooooool! I want to say I'm the one of the two that knows how to drive, but I could be mistaken. :c
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-12-09 04:06:33
Psh, Facebook is onry for stalking my best friend's ex for her. :c Nini can stalk me, true story~
You're on the bottom, like hell Im letting Seha work the pedals
'Cause if she does Im coming prepared... Got a spare one, if not I'm wearing my old lacrosse helmet but if there's glass it will easily get through the face mask.
Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha
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By Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha 2011-12-09 04:13:52
You guys are keeping Uri up way beyond his bed time. :3
Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-12-09 04:19:48
You could just let me drive my car and we won't all die! :<
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By Odin.Hitoseijuro 2011-12-09 04:21:29
We better pre-game something fierce. That way when we get in the crash it wont hurt as much. lol, when you said that the first thing that came to mind was:
And then the conversation came to mind:
Urial: Hito are you pondering what Im pondering
Hito: I think so Urial, but I dont really know where we are going to find an alligator at this hour
My mind, it wanders ~.~
So, I was having a conversation with a female friend of mine last night about... well I honestly don't remember how it came up. Anyway, I have a habit of talking to girls once, or in class or just in any general setting and then if the next time, they don't give any indication of saying anything back I give up and move on.
For a more literal example I will go with an online situation. On a dating site like okcupid, I always give a well thought out message that leaves room for a response. Usually they respond a few times, each time the message gets longer and by about the 3rd message between us it tends to be really long. After that point, averaging 3 messages, no matter how well they go, or any indication that they dislike me (one girl literally said "have you ever met someone and after something they said, just wanted to blurt out 'marry me?'" (yes, it was odd)) they just don't respond, ever. Anyway, I always go "meh" and don't worry about it, never making an attempt to speak to them again.
Now, this situation comes along a lot. I am honestly not particularly attractive and make a point to let everyone know I am a nerd since it's literally everything I do in someway (I know that's the last thing you wanna say to a girl, but it felt relevant to the whole question). Every single time, I make a point of never making a point to greet people or go out of my way to speak to them, unless they do themselves because I believe that not taking the hint and talking to them again is the best way to make them think I am creepy. I don't talk a lot in public, but I think some people find it strange how much I talk with just them, so I am always worried people will think I'm creepy. In the end, all that really matters is the basic question based on the dating site example for ease of wording but it goes for everything, not just that specifically:
If the girl doesn't message you back, is it okay to message them again? Or is it considered creepy?
My friend is convinced it's okay to message them back, but she is a female and cute at that, I am pretty sure she has no idea what rejection is (I've known her a very long time so I know she doesn't)
I am convinced that the best way to make them decide I'm a worse creeper than the guy who runs around to every girls page and says "lets fuck", since that guy isn't paying them any special interest, where if a guy who actually took the time to give a shit, gives a shit, he may be really into them and clearly I can't take a hint.
I keep over explaining things, is it a hint to stop talking to them if they don't respond? It honestly seems pretty obvious that it is a strong hint, but my friend is convinced other wise.
Anyway, I'll restate the main question in the tl;dr:
tl;dr:
If a girl doesn't message you back on something like an online dating site, after several correspondences, does that mean you should give up and move on?
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