Luignata said:
I wonder why you are so derogatory towards our relationship. Is it because you’ve had bad experiences in relationships and now you’ve become biased? Or are you your stereotypical jackass? (I say jackass because it’s one thing to be stereotypical, but another to create drama because of it)
I find it puzzling why you insist on commenting and judging something you know very little to nothing about.
I find it puzzling why you insist on commenting and judging something you know very little to nothing about.
To be frank, no matter how long you've been together as a couple in our out of game, as boyfriend/girlfriend or even marriage. There is a never-ending and life long process of learning and understanding and working with each other.
The unfortunate thing is nothing is set in stone. Nothing is guaranteed to be happy and perfect til you grow old together. People change and so do their minds. It's an inevitable process and requires extensive amounts of patience and cooperation. And simply put it comes down to give and take, looking at things in a different light and finding out what's right for both of you.
It's sad that so many lack will power or patience, and more often than not, relationships will crumble sooner or later, no matter how awesome or perfect it may seem for whatever amount of time. However, as previously stated: it takes a person as selfish and selfless as you are to really come to a pact of working together to attain each other's happiness together.
But what it really comes down to in the long run: do what's right for you. Don't sacrifice everything for someone you have even a shadow of a doubt about. I know that sounds selfish, but it really isn't. Cause if you got the right person, things will fit together just right, and any obstacle or problem will be overcome by working together.
