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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:19:20
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What does any of this have to do with gender equality? lol...
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:21:56
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Quetzalcoatl.Maldini said: »
Take something as potent and explosive as a young male's sexual drive, mix it with alcohol, add some eye candy like dancing flirty skimpy dressed 18-25 year old women and expect everything to be as refined as a corporate meeting discussing and negotiating a large sale transaction - sounds like a plan.
Not really. You expect a little self control.

It's like you guys are saying that if certain criteria are met it's a persons right to just *** that person whether they want it or not.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:22:03
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Gender equality doesn't exist so nothing has anything to do with it
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:23:29
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Leviathan.Comeatmebro said: »
If you drink like a ***
How do you drink like a ***?

Anyone think that thoughts like this are part of the problem? Well the *** was out drinking like a *** so shes pretty much asking for it anyways!
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:24:13
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Cerberus.Anjisnu said: »
Gender equality doesn't exist so nothing has anything to do with it
I agree with you on that.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:26:15
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Wouldn't go as far as saying someone who is legitimately raped deserves it but with this law as long as alcohol is involved regret can potentially = rape
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:27:27
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Then again regret = rape anyway now they just have an easier route to take it to court
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:29:55
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appearantly if you don't condone rape, not just of women, you are a feminist lol...

I also don't get why so many people are in the position that they are afraid of this happening to them.
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-10-01 11:30:13
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Ramyrez said: »
So you're a narcissistic ***, like Nausi.

You two will get along classically.
What about me?

Am I a narcissistic ***?

Or just a general ***?
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:33:04
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I myself am not above abusing this law case in point if my daughter got drunk had consensual sex and regretted it I would advise her to criminalize the act and change the unwitting *** life forever
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:33:24
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The arrest rate for rape, not even taking into account the conviction rate, is abysmally low already so...
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:34:30
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Well now it won't even have to be rape to get an arrest/conviction
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-10-01 11:35:10
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
The arrest rate for rape, not even taking into account the conviction rate, is abysmally low already so...
Not if you live in Sweeden, where it's apparently 665,000 per year!

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By Artemicion 2014-10-01 11:36:27
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:38:51
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Cerberus.Anjisnu said: »
Well now it won't even have to be rape to get an arrest/conviction
an arrest maybe... a conviction is another thing completely. The person would still have to prove that they did actually have sex and that they did not or were unable to give consent anyways.

That's that problem with the arrest/conviction rates already. It's usually a he said she said event and there's not a lot of actual proof of whether it happened or not if you even know who did it to you or they can find that person.
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By Ramyrez 2014-10-01 11:40:08
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Asura.Kingnobody said: »
Ramyrez said: »
So you're a narcissistic ***, like Nausi.

You two will get along classically.
What about me?

Am I a narcissistic ***?

Or just a general ***?

More the later. A label probably also applicable to me on many occasions.

You at least have shown a history of being able to express empathy for someone who isn't you/someone you can see yourself in.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:40:53
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And that is absolutely horrible but this law caters more to the jilted lover so to speak
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:45:24
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Cerberus.Anjisnu said: »
And that is absolutely horrible but this law caters more to the jilted lover so to speak
How so?
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By Ramyrez 2014-10-01 11:46:52
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Cerberus.Anjisnu said: »
And that is absolutely horrible but this law caters more to the jilted lover so to speak
How so?

I'm pretty sure they're all just scared shitless of sleeping with an intoxicated girl, having her sober up and realize they weren't worth sleeping with, and getting charged with rape.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-01 11:47:43
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How terrible in bed are you guys that you just assume every woman is just going to regret having sex with you? Regret it so much that they will cry rape.

I mean, why is there this general tone being set here that every woman that has sex with a guy is going to just regret it? lol... Have you guys had that many bad experiences?
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By Artemicion 2014-10-01 11:49:57
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It's a plausible concern, but luckily it's going to take some tangible merit to bring forth any consequence against you into fruition just because the other party made a regrettable decision in retrospect.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:51:17
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I'll never have that happen to me of my 31 years of life I've been married 13 of them
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By Ramyrez 2014-10-01 11:53:05
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I'll never have that happen to me of my 31 years of life I've been married 13 of them

Careful. According to some of these fellas she's just waiting for a sign of weakness to divorce you and take you to the cleaners. Marriage is a trap. Sex is a trap. Women are a trap and need to be treated as such because they'll turn on you for merely carrying out your biological imperative.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:56:18
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Women can be very vindictive when they find out they were just a 1 night special (men as well but usually just happy to save some jergens) doesn't take much to get them to bring charges
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 11:57:31
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Till death do us part lol she leaves me or I leave her our kids would end up orphans
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2014-10-01 11:59:56
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
How terrible in bed are you guys that you just assume every woman is just going to regret having sex with you? Regret it so much that they will cry rape.

Didn't you know? This is FFXIAH.com where men are picking up women every 15 to 20 minutes. I have to swat the ladies down once I show them my spreadsheets and my parsers.

And that's before they see how rock hard my Indi-Barrier can get.
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By Ramyrez 2014-10-01 12:01:53
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Cerberus.Anjisnu said: »
Women can be very vindictive when they find out they were just a 1 night special (men as well but usually just happy to save some jergens) doesn't take much to get them to bring charges

I'm not saying false criminal reports are okay, but if you do that to anyone -- man or woman -- and you aren't clear about that intent, you probably deserve some sort of fallout.

Again, not criminal accusations, true. But something.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2014-10-01 12:02:50
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I don't fear for myself but for my son, now if he did rape someone there wouldn't be a trial as he would cease to live
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By Ragnarok.Nausi 2014-10-01 12:02:58
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If you dress like a ***, get drugged, and get raped, you aren't in any way responsible.

Yeah, those high end red cars are begging to be stolen. I mean, if you didn't want it stolen why would you get it in red? Catches the eye of everyone and there is no one to blame but the person who bought the car. Because seriously it's pretty, just sitting there with the motor purring, tantalizing those car thieves.

These are some of the stupidest arguments I've seen on AH, and frankly, that is saying something.
Wait a second. If you buy a Luxury or high end sports car not expecting to be a greater blip/target for car thieves, you are a flipping idiot. That's why they their manufactures generally make them with greater anti theft devices integrated into them, because they're bigger targets.
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