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 Ramuh.Dasva
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-07-18 20:33:33
Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: So I just logged into my bank account online and found out my sister stole my checks and has been stealing my money....
Am I a bad person if I file charges on my sister? You'd be a bad person if you didn't. Can't reinforce stuff like that
By Kyree 2010-07-18 20:37:43
Hm
 Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-07-18 20:38:25
Ramuh.Dasva said: Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: So I just logged into my bank account online and found out my sister stole my checks and has been stealing my money....
Am I a bad person if I file charges on my sister? You'd be a bad person if you didn't. Can't reinforce stuff like that Lets not forget, it's clearly, very illegal.
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-07-18 20:39:53
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Ramuh.Dasva said: Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: So I just logged into my bank account online and found out my sister stole my checks and has been stealing my money.... Am I a bad person if I file charges on my sister? You'd be a bad person if you didn't. Can't reinforce stuff like that Lets not forget, it's clearly, very illegal. Well that was my point. Letting her get away with something illegal is tantamount to encouraging it. And what happens when she escalates it.
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 20:40:15
By Kyree 2010-07-18 20:40:47
As opposed to not very illegal.
Interesting
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By Fenrir.Gimmeurselables 2010-07-18 20:41:40
Ramuh.Dasva said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: Ramuh.Dasva said: Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: So I just logged into my bank account online and found out my sister stole my checks and has been stealing my money.... Am I a bad person if I file charges on my sister? You'd be a bad person if you didn't. Can't reinforce stuff like that Lets not forget, it's clearly, very illegal. Well that was my point. Letting her get away with something illegal is tantamount to encouraging it. And what happens when she escalates it. I just hope she doesnt empty out my bank account before i can call tomorrow and cancel all checks (nobody at my bank on sunday) because I'm still out here in New York >_<
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-07-18 20:41:52
Kyree said: As opposed to not very illegal.
Interesting WEll there are plenty of illegal things that often wont get prosecuted or never will lol. So I'd call them not very illegal ;)
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-07-18 20:42:32
Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: Ramuh.Dasva said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: Ramuh.Dasva said: Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: So I just logged into my bank account online and found out my sister stole my checks and has been stealing my money.... Am I a bad person if I file charges on my sister? You'd be a bad person if you didn't. Can't reinforce stuff like that Lets not forget, it's clearly, very illegal. Well that was my point. Letting her get away with something illegal is tantamount to encouraging it. And what happens when she escalates it. I just hope she doesnt empty out my bank account before i can call tomorrow and cancel all checks (nobody at my bank on sunday) because I'm still out here in New York >_< Even if she does there is a decent chance you can get it back anyways. Most banks/credit agencies will reimburse you eventually depending on how hard it is to prove. Then there is always just getting it back from her
By Kyree 2010-07-18 20:44:30
Illegal is illegal whether you charge someone or not.
And now I bid farewell /
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-07-18 20:45:47
Hence the modifier to explain the degree of illegality ;)
 Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 20:52:38
Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: Ramuh.Dasva said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: Ramuh.Dasva said: Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: So I just logged into my bank account online and found out my sister stole my checks and has been stealing my money.... Am I a bad person if I file charges on my sister? You'd be a bad person if you didn't. Can't reinforce stuff like that Lets not forget, it's clearly, very illegal. Well that was my point. Letting her get away with something illegal is tantamount to encouraging it. And what happens when she escalates it. I just hope she doesnt empty out my bank account before i can call tomorrow and cancel all checks (nobody at my bank on sunday) because I'm still out here in New York >_<
Pressing charges won't do anything. If it's anything under $10,000 your DA won't even bother to look at the case.
Most you can do is small claims her and if she doesn't pay you back after that hire a marshal to garnish her information and collect on your behalf.
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 20:54:11
Why did your sister even have access? No one touches my bank account but me.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 20:54:31
Fairy.Spence said: Why did your sister even have access? No one touches my bank account but me.
If you read, she stole his checks.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 21:03:35
Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury said: Pressing charges won't do anything. If it's anything under $10,000 your DA won't even bother to look at the case.
Most you can do is small claims her and if she doesn't pay you back after that hire a marshal to garnish her information and collect on your behalf.
Have to add, that's the only way you can force her to pay you back.
However collectors usually charge a 1/3 fee of the total collected. So it's up to you to balance out if it's worth it.
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 21:12:41
Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury said: Fairy.Spence said: Why did your sister even have access? No one touches my bank account but me.
If you read, she stole his checks.
Why did your sister even have access? No one touches my bank account but me.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 21:13:54
Fairy.Spence said: Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury said: Fairy.Spence said: Why did your sister even have access? No one touches my bank account but me.
If you read, she stole his checks.
Why did your sister even have access? No one touches my bank account but me.
You're implying he left his checks out to give her access. Which is undoubtedly not true.
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 21:14:50
I'm just trying to mess with you
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 21:15:09
Fairy.Spence said: I'm just trying to mess with you
I'm not, I'm responding seriously.
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 21:19:02
Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury said: Fairy.Spence said: I'm just trying to mess with you
I'm not, I'm responding seriously.
Ok, champ!
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By Fenrir.Gimmeurselables 2010-07-18 21:25:41
Thanks for the info Prince :]
It seems I am in a bind as it won't be over $10000 and paying to get money back just sounds lame.... but then again I know she won't pay me back if I ask her because she already owes a bunch of money to people /sigh
this sucks.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 21:26:22
Is the amount she stole over $1,999?
 Shiva.Xet
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By Shiva.Xet 2010-07-18 21:29:16
Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: Thanks for the info Prince :]
It seems I am in a bind as it won't be over $10000 and paying to get money back just sounds lame.... but then again I know she won't pay me back if I ask her because she already owes a bunch of money to people /sigh
this sucks.
Sadly my response if she won't pay it back and you won't press charges and has stolen from you would be to steal from her.
The way my mind works is odd but if it's family i think the game can change.
I don't think i helped here.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury 2010-07-18 21:31:46
Shiva.Xet said: Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said: Thanks for the info Prince :]
It seems I am in a bind as it won't be over $10000 and paying to get money back just sounds lame.... but then again I know she won't pay me back if I ask her because she already owes a bunch of money to people /sigh
this sucks.
Sadly my response if she won't pay it back and you won't press charges and has stolen from you would be to steal from her.
The way my mind works is odd but if it's family i think the game can change.
I don't think i helped here.
Hehe, sad thing is...
If he steals the money back in any unlawful way, she could sue him and win >_<. Even if he brings up the fact she stole the same amount initially. Funny how it works ;x.
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By Shiva.Xet 2010-07-18 21:35:29
Quetzalcoatl.Princemercury said: Hehe, sad thing is...
If he steals the money back in any unlawful way, she could sue him and win >_<. Even if he brings up the fact she stole the same amount initially. Funny how it works ;x.
So just need a clever plan!!!
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-07-18 21:39:01
It wouldn't be stealing. He was just getting the money he "loaned" her back ;)
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 21:43:37
Ramuh.Dasva said: It wouldn't be stealing. He was just getting the money he "loaned" her back ;)
Doesn't work that way
I don't know how much we're talking about, and you may not want to say, but if you can live without it, I'd write it off as a loss.
What to do about your sister afterwards is a tricky subject.
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By Shiva.Xet 2010-07-18 21:46:44
Fairy.Spence said: Doesn't work that way
I don't know how much we're talking about, and you may not want to say, but if you can live without it, I'd write it off as a loss.
What to do about your sister afterwards is a tricky subject.
Very noble if you have that money to lose or forget.
Agreed though I would be anywhere between heavy non-violent vengeance and just extreme shouting mr shoutypants.
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By Ramuh.Mairah 2010-07-18 21:57:08
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2010-07-18 21:58:58
I just know what it's like to deal with stealing within a family
My uncle stole a considerable amount of money from my mom and other uncle, money from a gravel pit of all things lol
Haven't seen my cousins in over 10 years now because of it, and one just got married, my favorite of the 3 cousins :/ I had no idea
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
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Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
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Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
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