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 Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-04-21 04:59:01
Asura.Zekky said: Shiva.Weewoo said: Asura.Zekky said: All righty. I'm out. All this sex talk makes me want to hump my RL taru. Or at least snuggle with her. Which I'm gonna do. Snuggle and play Mass Effect probably... Or MW2...
Good night. She looks like a taru IRL. ; ; <.< I'm told.. I have the proportions of a mithra.. without the tail or ears. Blegh.. Taru sounds cuter than mithra.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:00:28
Shiva.Weewoo said: What I'm saying if this was a typical, functioning relationship running off of mutual respect/understanding/ and love for one another, ^
Shiva.Weewoo said: To say you weren't meant to be just cause you only get off at having a *** up your *** and vag and it wasn't okay with your spouse is pretty lame. I never used this analogy
You did
If you don't get off on that then don't pick a girl that wants it.
The only point ive said this entire time is you have to compromise :/
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:01:13
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Asura.Zekky said: Shiva.Weewoo said: Asura.Zekky said: All righty. I'm out. All this sex talk makes me want to hump my RL taru. Or at least snuggle with her. Which I'm gonna do. Snuggle and play Mass Effect probably... Or MW2...
Good night. She looks like a taru IRL. ; ; <.< I'm told.. I have the proportions of a mithra.. without the tail or ears. Blegh.. Taru sounds cuter than mithra. Lol tarus give me the creeps
and Mithras run like hunchbacks
/hume
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:02:06
As I've said before. There's no compromise to be made if it crosses lines established at the beginning of the relationship. But from the many arguments you've made before, you always say it wasn't meant to be unless they're both okay with a given sexual request.
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-04-21 05:02:43
Sylph.Ixe said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: Asura.Zekky said: Shiva.Weewoo said: Asura.Zekky said: All righty. I'm out. All this sex talk makes me want to hump my RL taru. Or at least snuggle with her. Which I'm gonna do. Snuggle and play Mass Effect probably... Or MW2...
Good night. She looks like a taru IRL. ; ; <.< I'm told.. I have the proportions of a mithra.. without the tail or ears. Blegh.. Taru sounds cuter than mithra. Lol tarus give me the creeps
and Mithras run like hunchbacks
/hume I run more like an Elvaan myself, but I blame that on my having such LONG legs.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:03:27
Asura.Bartimaeus said: I really do think there is a misunderstanding in that debate, because you're both right and you're both talking about different things, I think. lol Hes using extreme examples
Ive said compromise
I never said you had to take it up the *** to make a relationship functional
Or watch your gf get double teamed
I said you have to compromise
Cuz if one does have an extreme kink
and you cant get past it
Its not fair to that said partner to continue the relationship
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:04:58
Shiva.Weewoo said: As I've said before. There's no compromise to be made if it crosses lines established at the beginning of the relationship. But from the many arguments you've made before, you always say it wasn't meant to be unless they're both okay with a given sexual request. Most people dont put their kinks out there in the 'beginning'
and yes, most of the time
If one side establishes a kink of theirs
and the other isn't comfy with that
Then it isn't meant to be :/
Because one side will be happy as a clam and the other will be unhappy >.>
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:05:07
Sylph.Ixe said: Cuz if one does have an extreme kink
and you cant get past it
Its not fair to that said partner to continue the relationship Sylph.Ixe said: Shiva.Weewoo said: To say you weren't meant to be just cause you only get off at having a *** up your *** and vag and it wasn't okay with your spouse is pretty lame. I never used this analogy
You did
If you don't get off on that then don't pick a girl that wants it.
The only point ive said this entire time is you have to compromise :/
Wut?
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:06:41
Sorry, these statements you've been giving are just downright contrary.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:06:52
Shiva.Weewoo said: Sylph.Ixe said: Cuz if one does have an extreme kink
and you cant get past it
Its not fair to that said partner to continue the relationship Sylph.Ixe said: Shiva.Weewoo said: To say you weren't meant to be just cause you only get off at having a *** up your *** and vag and it wasn't okay with your spouse is pretty lame. I never used this analogy
You did
If you don't get off on that then don't pick a girl that wants it.
The only point ive said this entire time is you have to compromise :/
Wut? If you don't acknowledge someone elses preferences
that is NOT compromising
That is blatantly ignoring a factor that can ultimately lead said partner to cheat
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:07:39
So you're one of the people that thinks sex is the make or break factor in a relationship? Sorry, that's pretty fail right there.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:08:25
Shiva.Weewoo said: Sorry, these statements you've been giving are just downright contrary. Youre thinking of EXTREMES
not normal ones
Like say take Ry
She likes to be tied up (pretty run of the mill and normal)
But if her bf doesn't feel comfy with that
Shell prolly not be as happy as she would if he indulged her
So compromise and make it as easy a transition
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:09:04
Shiva.Weewoo said: So you're one of the people that thinks sex is the make or break factor in a relationship? Sorry, that's pretty fail right there. Sex is a huge factor in relationships!!!!!
Are you kidding?!!!!
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:09:35
It is a determining factor yes. But not a make or break one.
Not to offend but to say otherwise just makes you sound like a total ***.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:10:23
Shiva.Weewoo said: It is a determining factor yes. But not a make or break one. It can be
Because if someone isn't getting what they need at home
They can cheat
And that is a HUGE break factor
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:11:19
If you cheat because you can't get your kink out of your partner, then you probably shouldn't have been in a lasting relationship from the get go. That's something you get out of the local personals.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:11:39
Shiva.Weewoo said: Not to offend but to say otherwise just makes you sound like a total ***. Idc what it makes me sound like
Idc what you think of me
All I know is that from what you say
You're totally fine if your partners needs aren't met
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:12:41
Shiva.Weewoo said: If you cheat because you can't get your kink out of your partner, then you probably shouldn't have been in a lasting relationship from the get go. That's something you get out of the local personals. Omfg you just said what I did >.>
I said
If you cant compromise you shouldn't be together
and you said that it is a contradictory statement
But you just confirmed it >.>
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:13:19
Sylph.Ixe said: Cuz if one does have an extreme kink
and you cant get past it
Its not fair to that said partner to continue the relationship
See <.<
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:13:35
Sylph.Ixe said: Shiva.Weewoo said: Not to offend but to say otherwise just makes you sound like a total ***. Idc what it makes me sound like
Idc what you think of me
All I know is that from what you say
You're totally fine if your partners needs aren't met
Some girls need diamond rings, some need *** up the *** and vag at the same time. If I refuse to oblige then yeah, it wasn't meant to be. But this is something I'd most likely pick up within the first few months of getting to know each other if not less. I'd be damned if a girl was holding back her own dissatisfaction to linger a broken relationship for the sake of having an emotional/financial crutch.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:15:02
Shiva.Weewoo said:
Some girls need diamond rings, some need *** up the *** and vag at the same time. If I refuse to oblige then yeah, it wasn't meant to be. But this is something I'd most likely pick up within the first few months of getting to know each other if not less. I'd be damned if a girl was holding back her own dissatisfaction to linger a broken relationship for the sake of having an emotional/financial crutch.
You just confirmed what I have been saying for like 30 min >.>
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:16:00
Sylph.Ixe said: Shiva.Weewoo said: If you cheat because you can't get your kink out of your partner, then you probably shouldn't have been in a lasting relationship from the get go. That's something you get out of the local personals. Omfg you just said what I did >.>
I said
If you cant compromise you shouldn't be together
and you said that it is a contradictory statement
But you just confirmed it >.>
It depends on the severity of the demands. Most things are minor and can be overlooked and accepted as never going into fruition for the sake of not estranging the one you love and care for. But if you want to give that up for your own selfish gratification then that's pretty *** up.
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:17:35
Probably because you used the word compromise. A compromise is terms accepted by both parties after having adjusted the conditions to agreeable terms on both sides. It isn't much of a compromise if it was an unacceptable line to cross determined in the wee stages of a relationship.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:19:55
Shiva.Weewoo said: Probably because you used the word compromise. A compromise is terms accepted by both parties after having adjusted the conditions to agreeable terms on both sides. It isn't much of a compromise if it was an unacceptable line to cross determined in the wee stages of a relationship. Exactly
in that situation it become uncompromisable
Which means you need to break
Because one side wont be happy
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:20:28
Shiva.Weewoo said:
It depends on the severity of the demands. Most things are minor and can be overlooked and accepted as never going into fruition for the sake of not estranging the one you love and care for. But if you want to give that up for your own selfish gratification then that's pretty *** up.
I told you you were thinking of extremes >.>
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:22:24
Which brings to me my "this determines a breakup?" point. If a relationship is broken because one won't capitulate to ridiculous sexual demands for the sake of her own gratification then that's pretty FUBAR.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:24:01
Shiva.Weewoo said: Which brings to me my "this determines a breakup?" point. If a relationship is broken because one won't capitulate to ridiculous sexual demands for the sake of her own gratification then that's pretty FUBAR. No. I'm saying that if you cant compromise
It will prolly not work out
not certain
high chance tho
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By Shiva.Weewoo 2010-04-21 05:26:22
Depends if this compromise is made for a selfish demand or a reasonable one that should be mutual to begin with.
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By Sylph.Ixe 2010-04-21 05:27:18
Shiva.Weewoo said: Depends if this compromise is made for a selfish demand or a reasonable one that should be mutual to begin with. Its not selfish to ask for what you like, if it's within reason I do not see why the word compromise scares you so much
Its selfish to, to use the word you love so much, alienate them into what you want.
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
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Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
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