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Caitsith.Mahayaya
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By Caitsith.Mahayaya 2011-01-05 08:28:56
It's often more about the connections you make, too. Job Corps should be good for you regardless of getting that concrete degree. If only for the fact that you won't be spending as much time on web forums or whatever.(Maybe find a job that lets you spend time surfing the web)
Even working a "low end" job for some time, you'll meet some people who realize you aren't HELP I AM TRAPPED IN 2006 PLEASE SEND A TIME MACHINE(many people are..) and may want to help you out on your way to finding a career you enjoy.
Server: Ramuh
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By Ramuh.Sagittario 2011-01-05 08:29:53
So? Anybody else would have been working or learning in that time.
Sitting pressing F5 is not a job.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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Posts: 13469
By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:31:14
Frankly, I'd be happy with a receptionist job in a medical office again, or a mindless data entry position.. but no others will hire me, for the fact I lack a work history and the whole High School thing. :/
The one I had for a short while, was in a chiropractor's office. lol..
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:35:49
If I could have afforded to have gotten it prior, I would have.. :/
Caitsith.Mahayaya
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By Caitsith.Mahayaya 2011-01-05 08:38:15
Asura.Bartimaeus said: Tbh it was probably less the lack of work history and moreso the GED/Diploma thing. Unless you were looking for specific jobs that needed prior history (dunno why you would if it said that). I had poor work history (alot of walkouts), which made it probably infinitely harder to find a job. Harder to explain away bad decisions than no decisions to interviewers. :/
Yeah, you could always BS and say something about having to keep care of someone sick in your family for that time if they were really concerned about it.
Whereas if you were fired from a job, they'd be a lot more concerned about the reasons why. They certainly wouldn't want the same to happen when they employ you.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:39:38
>.>; I don't like to lie about employment.. it's just something I don't do.
Asura.Celene
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By Asura.Celene 2011-01-05 08:39:54
It depends what you're looking for if you're going to take GED/diploma vs lack of work history.
If you were to apply to let's say, some place like Wal-mart as a part-time cashier or something, a lot of the time they will hire people with no experience/no highschool education (and I am sorry if I offend anyone!)
When I think of a medical office, I think of needing some post-secondary education, and some form of work experience, and here is where having that part-time job at Wal-Mart might come into play.
You have to start at the bottom before you work your way up, if anyone catches my drift.
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By Ramuh.Sagittario 2011-01-05 08:39:57
Rydiya will you wise up for god sakes. You say you have no work history yet you just said you used to work in an office. As a receptionist you must have shown strong organisational skills, accuracy in your work, responsiblity of dealing with customer enquiries and bookings and a good display of customer service. I don't think you realise the skills you can offer even from a limited period of employment. As for dropping out of school I think you will find most employers don't give a ***about that so long as you demonstrate the ability to do a good job.
Stop believing nobody will hire you, have you asked them before you assume your worthless. Believe in yourself for crying out loud, people have made a success out of themselves from a far worse background than you.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:41:44
Yes, Sagi. I have asked. Every interviewer I ask, tells me, that because I failed to have a GED, and with my lack of experience, they would not hire me.
Not even chain retail stores will hire me, so frankly, it feels kind of hopeless.
Caitsith.Mahayaya
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By Caitsith.Mahayaya 2011-01-05 08:43:54
Diabolos.Rydiya said: >.>; I don't like to lie about employment.. it's just something I don't do.
It's not lying about employment. If they ask you "Why haven't you been working or trying to continue school during Months X, Year X?"
Are you going to say the truth, "Well, I was spending 16 hours a day on a video game web forum." or would you say something like, "I was looking for work, but couldn't find any. I also didn't have the money to return to school."
Most people won't care that you didn't work, especially if you say the magic words "bad economy".
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By Ramuh.Sagittario 2011-01-05 08:47:08
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Yes, Sagi. I have asked. Every interviewer I ask, tells me, that because I failed to have a GED, and with my lack of experience, they would not hire me.
Sounds like your trying to make up excuses again. Reason I say this is because you don't get an interview if they are not interested in hiring you. You don't ask the person interviewing you, it's the other way around.
Regardless, you could get a job in Wal-mart or a factory job of similar stature no bother, you don't need qualifications/experience as long as you can stack shelves. So why havn't you? You are honestly going to sit there and tell us you have failed to get a job at wal-mart for four years?
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:49:10
As much as I hate to admit it? Yes. I can't even get a job stocking shelves at a retail chain.
I realize, a large part of it, may be caused by where I'm from, but that doesn't make it any less ridiculous.
Caitsith.Mahayaya
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By Caitsith.Mahayaya 2011-01-05 08:49:51
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Yes, Sagi. I have asked. Every interviewer I ask, tells me, that because I failed to have a GED, and with my lack of experience, they would not hire me. Not even chain retail stores will hire me, so frankly, it feels kind of hopeless.
Actually, you'd have a harder time finding a job at "chain" type businesses due to the lack of GED/High School Diploma. Many of them actually set a business-wide standard/requirement for employees. It's not good for self-esteem to go to a company/business that you know you're more than capable of working in, and having them tell you you're not qualified.
You'd be better off finding a job with a small, local business. But they usually require a different "screening process". Are you trustworthy? Are you intelligent? And these situations are where "it's not what you know but who you know" comes more into play.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:51:56
Again, all things I've tried. If I could have changed the fact, I failed something so very necessary, I would have long ago now.
Caitsith.Mahayaya
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By Caitsith.Mahayaya 2011-01-05 08:53:42
Meh, things will shape up once you get your GED. Life's a *** without that. From there you can decide to look for a job, continue education, or both.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:54:51
Frankly, cooking is just a "Well, it's a job, so I can afford to do BETTER" thing for me. :/ I don't even know what I want to dow ith my life. Perhaps I'll see about getting into photojournalism or something.
Bahamut.Dasva
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-01-05 08:55:11
Caitsith.Mahayaya said: Meh, things will shape up once you get your GED. Life's a *** without that. From there you can decide to look for a job, continue education, or both. Or just join the military!!!
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-01-05 08:55:37
Mornin'
Ryd, I have no idea what Job corps. is, but weren't you starting it soon? Sounds like a step in the right direction :P
Server: Ramuh
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By Ramuh.Sagittario 2011-01-05 08:56:33
Lost cause. Won't listen. Won't try.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:57:00
Bahamut.Dasva said: Caitsith.Mahayaya said: Meh, things will shape up once you get your GED. Life's a *** without that. From there you can decide to look for a job, continue education, or both. Or just join the military!!! D: I CAN'T SWIM!!!!!!!!!11
Fairy.Spence said: Mornin'
Ryd, I have no idea what Job corps. is, but weren't you starting it soon? Sounds like a step in the right direction :P Yes, I do start it soon. I don't want to go in some ways, but I will be.
I leave next week.
Asura.Celene
Server: Asura
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Posts: 2467
By Asura.Celene 2011-01-05 08:57:16
I don't think they have Job Corps here in Canada, Spence. :P I didn't know what it was, either.
Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 08:58:15
Asura.Celene said: I don't think they have Job Corps here in Canada, Spence. :P I didn't know what it was, either. Yeah.. It's a lolAmerica thing.
Came around in the.. '60's I believe.
Caitsith.Mahayaya
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By Caitsith.Mahayaya 2011-01-05 08:59:16
Bahamut.Dasva said: Caitsith.Mahayaya said: Meh, things will shape up once you get your GED. Life's a *** without that. From there you can decide to look for a job, continue education, or both. Or just join the military!!!
Honestly, I've considered it before. Up until the point I realized I'd have to wake up early everyday for boot camp. And the fact that they basically own you afterwards. Great benefits, good pay, and they'll usually cover school costs. But if they need you for something, you have to drop whatever you're doing and be at their beck and call.
Fairy.Spence
Server: Fairy
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Posts: 23780
By Fairy.Spence 2011-01-05 08:59:57
Diabolos.Rydiya said:
Yes, I do start it soon. I don't want to go in some ways, but I will be.
I leave next week.
Sometimes all you need is to take that first step? Anyway, good luck!
Asura.Celene said: I don't think they have Job Corps here in Canada, Spence. :P I didn't know what it was, either.
'Corps' sounds to military-ish for me. Do not want.
Sylph.Anjali said: Good Morning Spence. How have you been? Can't complain! Procrastinating like usual. Yourself?
Diabolos.Rydiya
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Posts: 13469
By Diabolos.Rydiya 2011-01-05 09:00:38
Caitsith.Mahayaya said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Caitsith.Mahayaya said: Meh, things will shape up once you get your GED. Life's a *** without that. From there you can decide to look for a job, continue education, or both. Or just join the military!!!
Honestly, I've considered it before. Up until the point I realized I'd have to wake up early everyday for boot camp. And the fact that they basically own you afterwards. Great benefits, good pay, and they'll usually cover school costs. But if they need you for something, you have to drop whatever you're doing and be at their beck and call. >.> I wouldn't mind that too terribly much.. but I can't swim at all, and there's a reason behind that.
..Job corps is basically prison, but with a few nice benefits.. lol.
Fairy.Spence
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Posts: 23780
By Fairy.Spence 2011-01-05 09:04:26
Sylph.Anjali said: Fairy.Spence said:
Sylph.Anjali said: Good Morning Spence. How have you been? Can't complain! Procrastinating like usual. Yourself?
I'm ok :) We should chat sometime soon maybe. I saw a nice waistcoat in the sales!
I updated to the new MSN which I don't like, so I'm never on.
I still need one of those :/ I've spent way too much over the holidays and I don't know whether or not I'm going back to my job, so I'm trying not to spend.
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree

Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present

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Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
Flionheart 22174 2008-11-17 14:28:15
Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
Mabrook 8356 2008-07-01 00:53:38
Marzbarz 7723 2010-01-10 14:12:5
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