Romantically Frustrated?

I find that in my experience, not that this will be indicative of yours, girls that are interested in me usually make several glances at my junk in the course of say...ten minutes. Sometimes they might stick their tongue out a little or even silently mouth the word "saucy" when they think I'm not looking.

I know what you mean. People refer to their girl friends(friends who are girls) as ***, ***, hoe etc, but they always end up with them. I find it really disrespectful, but I guess some chicks don't like guys who respect them more than hey respect themselves.

i actually laughed at something you said for once

I can't say I've had success, but I always found it was best to be up front and honest about your feelings. I know its hard. I'm generally very shy, but you just have to decide what your feelings towards someone are. Are they worth going outside of your comfort zone? If the answer is yes, then just go for it. I'd rather swing and miss then just step back.

Sexual tension changes everything. If a guy has intention of something more than just "Talking" there is an entirely different line of processes going on, making sure you say the "Right" thing, while walking a line that varies from woman to woman, and hour by hour, between "Suave" and "Creep."

Also, it's kind of hard to strike up a conversation without some common ground, this leads to two particular issues. One is that borderline stalker issue, but more realistically, especially when talking to people in these forums, our interest and tastes aren't exactly in a majority, and even when present, is usually under the surface, making the search for common, conversation-fertile ground, a little harder.

Without that, the only other bait is physical attractiveness, and not everyone is blessed with their culture's ideal set of physical traits that one would consider "Hawt", I mean, not 200 years ago, being "Fat" (Not Morbid obese or something, but that didn't really exist until recently) was considered attractive and a sign of success.

i had a problem where i guess a guy liked me and i didnt notice and when i got with someone else he went ape ***and still hates my guts forever but i lost a good friend lol gotta give girls better hints lol

You are (apparently) a woman. You have it relatively easy in the dating game. If this is your first time learning of such things let me just say yeah, it really is that bad for a lot of guys. There's a lot of pressure for us.

lol damn, didn't see that coming

I'm having trouble coming up with a good definition but here's a shot at it. Ask yourself who would wear the pants in a relationship between yourself and one of your woman friends. If it's not you, you're probably a sub.

Lol if he hates you because you were with someone else, then he was never your friend to begin with, because he only was thinking of himself.

or were you just oblivious! its really not that hard to tell most of the time :(

i thought you had a wife, and i thought this was your wife's account O_o

srs yuna? lol

hrm i guess ur right o.o he just recently confirmed he still hates me so hes gone from my life forever anyway lol

i got trolled :(

why would someone hate you for something like that

sometimes i just don't get people

what can i say lol i tend to attract the oddest people :3

I was incredibly shy and anxious around people in High School to the point of miniature panic attacks. I still believe it was a completely mental thing. In college I was fine, and have been ever since.


Okay...I can see this. This was the pivotal time in exploring relationships with the opposite sex.

Based off my other relationships, I do, I just have trouble approaching her, really. She has a BF now, and for a while she'd constantly call me at all hours telling me she thinks he's cheating on her, or he did this, etc or whatever, does that make me submissive? D:

I've had girls before that I was friends with and became interested in. They didn't feel the same way. I left it at that and we're still friends and nothing has changed, etc.

Doesn't always go down like that but yea, it quickly becomes obvious when someone is just thinking of themselves "oh if you don't want to be with me, then I don't want to be your friend" Lol, what kind of bs logic is that?

^^^ This!!!

Cuz he jelly, dur.

It sucks being in a group of Like-minded friends, though, cause you wind up having the same taste in women, so it's almost competitive. And if something doesn't work out, there's that worst of situations where you ~could~ get with her, but you risk alienating your friends. That, in my opinion, is the worst feeling in the world.

yeah

and my mother who made me go there wonders why i don't have a girlfriend

Obligatory

*** love confidence

I'm happily in a relationship and very satisfied with it. But I can definitely understand having trouble talking to the opposite sex. It's very hard for me to talk to guys other than my husband unless I know them well, because I've had problems in the past when men thought I was flirting and I hadn't meant to come across as flirtatious at all.

It's especially hard in-game because guys seem to think I'm as pretty as my character (LOL) or are just used to most mithras being flirtatious. Because of that, I tend not to talk much to guys (especially not online) unless I already know them.

i think hes just a little mentally unstable lol he tried to make me feel guilty and i was like wat lol then people wonder how i have such a negative view at the general public :P

Someone's from the south-east. They do make terrific subs, however =D

Op, just hang in there. Plenty if fish in the sea.

my like-minded group is people who don't know how to talk to women though

i asked a friend what i should do and he told me to break the ice by grabbing her boobs

and that was his best answer he could give because he doesn't know how to talk to women either

Yes, it is. I didn't really get out of the aesthetic funk until after high school. I still had a boyfriend throughout high school though.

Yea i'll bite...moreso because im sort of at a loss as what to do.

3 and 1/3 years ago I dated this japanese girl and things were great till she left to go back to japan(something I knew all along...mistake learned). Kept talking to her for a couple weeks after she had left and I was rather emo(my first love) about her not coming back for who knows how long. I tend to get upset when a girl I love breaks up with me and I cant have her anymore cuz I love with my whole heart. ***ended badly, I said alot of dumb things and we stopped talking for the past 3 years(also blocked me on fb) until...

About a week before the japan earthquake/tsunami I thought it would be cool to see what she was up to so I sent her a email. A couple emails later ***hit the fan in japan and I learn shes coming back for a month since she cant really do anything since everything is shutdown pretty much(school, work, etc). Well of course a bunch of old emotions in me get stirred up and I just don't even know.

The real kicker here is, my 2 best friends are still friends with her and have been keeping in touch with her. So im bound to run into her at some point shes here and i dont even know what ill do.