Random Thoughts.....What Are You Thinking?

Im sorry to hear :( it can hit pretty hard

I happen to love Long Distance Relationships though.. I mean, at first.

After a year or two I'm just thinking -.-------;

I've got the communication thing down, I've got the I express my feelings JUST fine down.

I'm ready to get the physical side of it down!
Oh heh, that sounds dirty.

I'm under the impression that girls cheat more than guys, at least in my experience.

I think its because girls don't have to do anything to have guys hit on them.

Whereas guys have to go out of their way to do it. Its alot easier to make a mistake if you begin passively. When you actively cheat you have a heavy conscience in pre-production.

Random thought:
http://www.thespec.com/whatson/artsentertainment/article/579031--yeah-baby-yeah-mike-myers-signs-up-for-austin-powers-4
Yeah baby!

No.
Girls tell more than guys.
Something about a conscience.

Ehh.. I dunno. I think theres no way to tell who does it more. Just because girls dont have to do anything, doesn't mean that when a guy wants some he wont go after it. Same with girls.. were pretty tricky that way. We can act like were not doing anything but we are if we want it bad enough.

And I have to disagree with the passively and actively cheating thing.. I think no matter what you have a heavy conscience.. or at least, you should if you're a person at all. :|

I agree with San.

In my experience, more girls cheat.

I've always noticed this too... and compleatly different mentality on it when most people look in on it. When the guy cheats its all "boo hes a jerk". When the woman cheats its always "you go girl he deserved it". Even when my one friends GF got drunk and cheated on them with 2 guys and 3 girls (rapid fire not all at once) some how it was his falt >.> and they wern't abuseive or anything. Even went as far as to give them another chance against our suggestions, 2 weeks 2 more cheats and they were done.

Deceiving evil witches, burn them at the stake!

Women are evil, what do you expect?

Humans are evil!

Something or another about lacking conscience.

but yeah, I have no patience for cheating. If you had the balls to cheat once, you'll have the balls to do it again. Therefore, I never want to see your face again and have a good life you ahole. :))

Anyways.. end of my rant. Time to pack out. :) Checkout is in 20 minutes! <3

I think otherwise, Guys cheat more then girls... just because of the simple fact that guys not all just aren't satisfied with what they have... they want more...

Hear that Barti? Better keep it on the down-low about us =x

Oh the conflict of humanity and emotions.
So beautiful, yet so scandalous.

ITT: misogyny and misandry.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all women are evil... they are no worse then men the only difference is they get away with it much more often. Which is why it appears that men cheat more simply because when a woman cheats the guy will just break it off and move on, when the man cheats it will be all over the facebook of people the girl has never spoken to in her life.

I disagree. I made an awful mistake(s) years ago. I won't go into it because...well...honestly, I'm ashamed.

But it was back when our relationship was new. I was younger, more stupid, and a little cocky.

Today, I would never do anything like that. It was stupid, selfish, etc and I'd rather die than do it again.

Seriously, I'd...rather...die.

To get the extra 5% on the final exam or test!

For me, it was a selfish power trip, an ego feeding. I think it's that way for most guys.

For girls, and I could be wrong, I think its usually when they feel emotionally deprived.

Both are terrible.

People change. Sometimes people that would never have cheated end up changing and become people that would cheat.

Sometimes people who would have cheated, who did cheat, turn into the most loyal people.

I think the argument of "Once an [x], always an [x]" is rather flawed in general. Some alcoholics get over it 100%, some addicts get over it 100%, some people that cheat get over it, too.

I also think, though, that not even offering a chance of forgiveness is a terrible thing. What sort of ivory tower do people place their partners in?

Yes, it hurts as hell when you get cheated on, but we're humans. We *** up, and you know what, we *** up a lot. I'm not saying it's okay to cheat, but what I am saying is that everyone deserves a chance to redeem themselves.

People change. Sometimes for the better.

If we never give them a chance, how can we ever view them as the bad party involved?

Many possibilities.
Greed.
Unease/unhappiness in a current relationship.
Natural desire to reproduce with the best suited mate.
Having a bad sex life in a current relationship.
The list goes on.

/snort

Girls cheating more than guys, ahahahaha! XD!!!!!

Yeah.
That blew my mind.
Women just have the conscience to admit to is.
Men lie.

Xue, I love you, man. No homo.

imo guys and girls cheat equally. i don't think guys cheat more than girl nor do i think girls cheat more than guys.

Implying women don't lie?

[-] to this and Yomi's!

You know those kind of people that never lie? Always says it like it is...
never met one thats a woman.

Not nearly as often.
There will always be those who don't do what the majority would do in the same situation. Some girls will lie. But not the majority. Some guys would confess also not the majority.