Korpg said:
You bash me for no reason at all.
If you really feel that way, why do you "bash" back? I can't understand the logic you are reiterating; you always play the victim and make out like everyone is on your case, but the simple fact of the matter is you're the firestarter the majority of the time or fight back. "Two wrongs don't make a right".
When I first started posting on these forums one of the first things I noticed was how you kept making remarks towards people... Not necessarily "Terribly rude or spiteful" remarks, but they were remarks none the less. A few people would be discussing something and you'd enter the thread and post your opinion. The only problem is, you didn't, and never do, just post your opinion. You add in a few lines that are directed spitefully towards the individuals; Let's quote you from this thread for an example:
Korpg said:
I don't really flame anyone without a reason. I just point out ***. If thats being a "prat" then the whole world is against you.
Was the underlined part necessary in any way? The point you were making would have been made even stronger if you left that out. By posting that extra sentence on the end, you've not only insulted Blazza but you've also basically put your flag up for a flame invite. Almost every post you make when you "Post your opinion" contains a tag-sentence of this nature.
There is a reason people receive us the way they do. It's through our actions, our words and our choice of language to other people that somebody's judgement is made. The way in which you conduct yourself is the way in which people treat you.
"Treat others as you would like to be treated".
If you treat people this way, you can not say you're being picked on, ganged up on, wrongly bashed for no reason, because that is the reason; you are responsible for this behaviour as well. If you feel people have the wrong image of you and that your "good intentions" are being mis-received, why do you lash out? Surely you should attempt to build bridges? The only reason people are on your case is because of how you've treated them before. As Saiya said, if you are good towards other people, the problem is then with the other individual if they lash out at you in return. I know full well that if you were polite in posts for awhile, my opinion of you would change and I might even grow to like you. Same can be said for the majority of people on these forums.
If you have the good intentions you suggest, perhaps you should re-read your posts just before you post? You could quite easily have me to believe you have good intentions if you refine your posts a little and take out the spiteful remarks you so commonly put in.
Korpg said:
I unfortunally make mistakes and can't fix it in time without people pointing out those mistakes
If they're mistakes, why don't you just put your hand up and move on? Why do you lash out?
Korpg said:
I do accept the fact that I'm human and move on
Lashing out is not moving on, Korpg. It's fighting back and furthering the argument. Why do you feel the need to lash out at anyone who points out these mistakes? If they're constantly on your case for making mistakes and you do nothing or say nothing back, who's "the bad guy" then? They are.
This all ties in together with your conduct; your posts are usually always spiteful and remarkful towards a previous poster or any given individual; are you really surprised people are inclined to pick up on your mistakes? I'm not, and coming from somebody who has been on your case recently, that's the only reason I have been; because of the way you word your posts and lash out at everyone else. Sometimes, even when somebody has attempted to be nice to you, you've lashed out.
Do you remember the thread where you asked for goldsmithing help? I gave you some solid advice and you insulted me back for it and called my posts "empty". This is exactly what I'm talking about. You could've just as easily gone "That doesn't work for me, but thanks anyway", and nobody would've looked down on you for it.
Perhaps it's just the choice of words you make, but your posts show no signs of your good intentions.
Korpg said:
Most of the comments against my opinion as of late has been because they are my opinions, not because the poster thinks my opinion is wrong.
Most of the comments against your opinions recently has been because of the way you've presented your opinions. If you simply say, "I believe this, because...", what ammunition would people have to flame you? The fact is you never do just post your opinion, you add in some patronising, spiteful remark towards somebody else everytime. If your post is polite, true and fair, nobody has any material whatsoever to bash you.
Are you starting to see the pattern? Everything is down to your conduct and the manner in which you treat people. If everyone is on your case, perhaps you should begin to understand the problem might be something to do with the way in which you post?
Korpg said:
I don't flame anyone because they have a different opinion than me.
Do you really believe this?
Korpg said:
I point out my opinion, why I think their opinion is not correct, and let debate happen
You don't though. Everyone knows you don't. Who are you trying to blind? Us or yourself? You never simply "post your opinion, debate theirs, move on". Ever. You always make remarks towards somebody else or make snide comments.
Korpg said:
Its those who like to stir up trouble that make the most drama, and they love to use me as their scapegoat (i.e. this thread).
As far as I can tell, this thead is included at the four of us. We all like a good argument, do we not? You took it on yourself in your first post to presume it was solely about you, and you proceeded to complain about it. The topic title clearly says "Malekith - Korpg - Wooooodum - Blazza". As for being the scapegoat, I can't talk on Malekith and Blazza's behalf, but I think that's more "I'm the victim" material. It's not true, Korpg, I'm sorry but it's just not.
I remember when I first started reading these forums. You posted an apology to everyone about your attitude and how you were going to change. This was back before me and Blazza were posting on the forums. Perhaps there's a point behind this... We're not the problem. You are. For somebody who doesn't like being singled out or bashed on, you sure do draw attention to yourself a lot.
I hope this post helped. I'm trying to make you see things from everyone else's point of view.
Now, AFK to cook some bacon.
