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By Valefor.Sehachan 2016-07-27 12:50:21
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Asura.Yojimmbo said: »
Speaking of economic capacity. . . if i make way more than my partner and can afford a better place, then should I seek someone else? Not that I live in a monarchy but, should I stay within my own economic area?
That's very shallow.
Unless you're seeking a partner only for interest, in that case make sure they are aware of the deal before leading them on. And if both agree to that more power to you.

I have nothing against people who marry for money, as long as it's clear to both and not an unaware exploitment. Cause that's horrible.
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By Anna Ruthven 2016-07-27 13:20:32
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Marriage is kinda a partnership, they use the phrase "settle down" for a reason; you settle. If your partner can't afford to go somewhere and you can't afford to take them there, you settle for somewhere else.
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By Anna Ruthven 2016-07-27 13:29:20
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24 years old and he told his facebook we were starving him, because we didnt cook for him and buy groceries for him.
Why would he expect this? Why would he publicly admit he expects this? Embarrassing.
 
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By Grumpy Cat 2016-07-27 13:44:31
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I think? I get where Yoji is coming from.

You work hard, get promotions, start your own company whatever and make some big bucks. You want to upgrade your house/car/whatever.

Partner works at X job, isn't making as much, a lot, or enough to contribute to the lifestyle upgrades you want.

If partner is not working towards improving their financial situation to help with meeting goals you have then they are not really a partner anymore if you ask me. The only line I would draw is if they are not able to get a job for physical reasons or medical or something.

If they are a life partner, they should want similar things to you in life, the better house better car whatever. If they don't want those things, then you should find someone who does. If they DO want those things, but are not willing to help foot the cost, same applies.
 
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2016-07-27 13:57:21
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It's important to be with someone with similar expectations out of life.

Same thing we tell those who complain about elitists/noobs in game: stick with likeminded people and you'll have fun.
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Jeanpaul is

Bug Catcher.

YEAH WEEDLE <O.o.o.o.o.o.o.o'


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By Valefor.Sehachan 2016-07-27 14:04:53
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Asura.Yojimmbo said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
It's important to be with someone with similar expectations out of life.

Same thing we tell those who complain about elitists/noobs in game: stick with likeminded people and you'll have fun.
I need a lady I can duo life with it. Damn it, I can't seem to speak correctly without referring to FF >.> There is no pause button.
Keep in mind though a relationship is a twoway street. Compromises are necessary on both sides.

Unless you find a perfect copy of yourself(and not everyone wants a clone*) you'll need to bend her way for some things just like you expect her to do so your way. If you can't be a team it won't work.

*Common interests help but personally I'd never want someone who is just like me in every aspect, that's just boring!
 
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2016-07-27 14:10:37
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Asura.Yojimmbo said: »
I don't know where to begin. I want to go watch a movie so I go watch a movie alone. She wants me to go watch a movie that I don't want to watch, so I don't go and it gets held against me. I'm in the wrong?
It depends. Some people are strongly independent, but most want complicity from a relationship, which also implies doing things together.
If she gets mad that you won't go to the movies with her then it means you didn't understand what her expectations of the relationship are.

Excessive clinginess isn't the most attractive trait, but indifference towards your partners needs and desires is worse.
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