PC - Xbox Controller Woes

So I'm trying to setup my brand new xbox 360 controller for my laptop and everything's working fine, except that the config tool will not let me change which button is confirm and which is cancel. No matter how I set it, it insists that Green/A is cancel and Red/B is select/confirm.

Every other change to config settings works exactly as it's told but these two will not change.

I'm using Windower 4 (if that's remotely relevant). XInput is enabled (doesn't work at all if it's not). I'm using the default, plugged it in and it worked, xbox controller driver on windows 10.

The changes impact the test-gamepad panel, and the separate tool for configuring controller with for PoL works fine for POL controls, but once I get to rules accceptance screen a few clicks before character selection, Red/B suddenly becomes select/confirm.

I am not using Steam.

I tried googling and found people with various controller problems related to ffxi, but not this.

It's a known issue.

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxi/threads/49120-Game-pad-and-FFXiPadConfig-not-working-correctly?s=a01d12097876b41ebb4870088f0fcf6b&p=567041#post567041

Will be fixed in December.

Thanks! The workaround provided by Zhronne works for me!