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Why do friends have to quit
 Siren.Zeroburning
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By Siren.Zeroburning 2011-04-10 12:14:35
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Sucks when your only friends in the game quit :(
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By Fairy.Ghaleon 2011-04-10 12:19:50
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make new ones :O
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By Siren.Zeroburning 2011-04-10 12:20:48
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well its hard to make new ones hard to build trust and not have to worry about getting #%^$ed over
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By Sylph.Zenairis 2011-04-10 12:23:42
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I understand lost many friends over the years one even passed away in RL I would have never have known if it wasn't for her family.

Quite a few of my close friends quit FFXI a long time ago at least I'm still in contact in RL with a few of them. It does hurt not to be able to play with them anymore :\
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By Siren.Zeroburning 2011-04-10 12:25:47
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well i got all there numbers they just went play 14 and rift >.> i was like really . . . 9 years and throwing it away
 
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By Bismarck.Maxse 2011-04-10 12:27:42
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It's because if someone you didn't know quits, you don't know they quit ;x
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By Asura.Karbuncle 2011-04-10 12:27:45
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I hate quitters :(

A lot of my friends came back though, but theres still a huge chunk that have left.

I just do my best to make new friends, and it is hard...

Also P.O'd Shamaya has "Quit". Used to ask him for THF Advice all the time and now he's POOF.
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By Siren.Zeroburning 2011-04-10 12:29:27
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LOl all the bis people i was thinking of switching to there lol
 
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By Siren.Zeroburning 2011-04-10 12:32:29
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yea always happens like that
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By Fenrir.Tsuji 2011-04-10 12:33:48
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When most of my friends quit, I stopped playing. The real reason I play FFXI is because I could play with friends and have fun with them. So when the fun is gone, I stopped playing.

Later I came back since some of them still played and I was hoping to maybe make some new friends. Its taking some time, though.
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By Asura.Ebry 2011-04-10 12:44:15
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It's really hard when you build friendships like that, people you can rely on no matter what. I think that's one of the things I miss most about playing. Just having those adventures.. conquests.. and failures. Just laughing and enjoying being around some amazing people.

I think about coming back, since I stopped playing for such a stupid reason. A few of the people I cared about most don't play anymore though, so it's rough to think about that. Who knows, maybe someday they'll come back and we can all play together again. :3

So keep your head up. :)
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By Phoenix.Degs 2011-04-10 13:07:11
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Think about it this way.... now that they have quit, you have a reason to build new friendships and new experiances. I had alot of friends quit a long time ago, (stopped playing for a couple months and then came back ) initially it was sucky, i was just hanging out by myself.. but it got better, and thru out the years i have established greater friendships than what i had before...

Asura.Ebry said:


So keep your head up. :)
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By Odin.Liela 2011-04-10 13:09:51
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It does suck. :-( I started playing with a husband, brother-in-law, and 4 rl friends, then made a few (about 4) really good friends in-game at first. Now the only ones of those folks left still playing is me and my husband.

We made some more friends, lost most of them when we switched linkshells, made some more. One of our closest pals recently sold his account while another has been hinting that he'll quit soon for a couple weeks. It's going to be down to just me and my husband again soon.

The hard part is, we've been on 4 or 5 different ls's and have had mostly bad experiences with them, so we're taking a break from ls's for now. But without a shell, we're not going to meet new people. We're just not. Besides, I still miss folks from my first set of pals. Making new friends doesn't make up for losing old ones.

The good news is I still keep in contact with most of them. Thank goodness for Facebook, I suppose. xD
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