I just spent a few hours looking for the "???" in Yhoator Jungle for Stop Your Whining. FFXIclopedia has a very useful map.
Unfortunately, I wasn't able to find the mythical "???" of legend anywhere, including the spots marked in the map. The only "???" I found was at Teardrop Spring, and that didn't do anything.
So, my question is, since the wiki appears to be wrong...
a) What should I do, besides getting a party together to comb the jungle?
b) What resets the location of the "???"?
Thank you in advance! I've been very frustrated by this quest.